Thursday, January 29, 2009

NOT A BOY TOY - 4th Realization


I have a lot of girl friends and just recently, I learned that most of my girl friends’ boyfriends are having this idea that their girlfriends are giving much more special attention towards me. Jealous boyfriends make me fell weird. I was really surprised and I find it hard now figuring out how to deal with these guys once we set faces again. It went a little too over the top when my friends won’t inform their boyfriends that I’m with them every time we go out – what is this crap?


And then, a friend gave her opinion on this issue- “Im surprised as well! Hindi naman si Denis yung type na pang-romance.” And what is this another crap? I don’t know what to feel- flattery or annoyance? Then again, maybe this is really how I presented myself- always the “friend”. Oh well, actually I have this cool relationship with all of my girl friends from grade school to college. It’s a little truthful but hey its still jolting.


So, maybe Im no hot guy, eye candy or a head turner. Maybe I’m the easy to get with, well-articulated, humor-glossed guy. Maybe Im not the real boy toy. Maybe I have to deal with the fact that Im treated all the time as “the friend”. Whether this is good or bad, all i care is that i maintain good relationships with people who make my life a little bit interesting.

8 comments:

Trip said...

so what do u really really want? a boy toy or a boy friend? :)

alex said...

buti di ka pa napapaaway sa mga bf nila

alex said...

i like the tshirt sa last pic

KRIS JASPER said...

Maybe they look at you like a bunny... so sweet and harmless...

anyway, i like that shirt at ur last foto.

lucas said...

nako tell be about. this is the story of my life especially because haley's bf's were just so insecure. hehe!

iba kasi level ko. hahaha!

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malungkot ba? hindi naman maxado! hehe! thanks, mate :)

ALPSaguado.com said...

Pinagseselosan din ako ng boyfriends ng girl friends ko. Hehe. :3

Mas gwapo raw kasi ako kesa sa kanila. LOL.

uglykidjoey said...

Basta wag lang may away, everything is cool. Mamatay sila sa selos hehehe

georgemaldita said...

It's been awhile since i visited ur site denis.. my apoligies..

nakarelate ako sa blog nato ah..
i too is always "the friend" and will always be "the friend".. and i also don't know if it's good or bad.. :))