NOT A BOY TOY - 4th Realization

I have a lot of girl friends and just recently, I learned that most of my girl friends’ boyfriends are having this idea that their girlfriends are giving much more special attention towards me. Jealous boyfriends make me fell weird. I was really surprised and I find it hard now figuring out how to deal with these guys once we set faces again. It went a little too over the top when my friends won’t inform their boyfriends that I’m with them every time we go out – what is this crap?


And then, a friend gave her opinion on this issue- “Im surprised as well! Hindi naman si Denis yung type na pang-romance.” And what is this another crap? I don’t know what to feel- flattery or annoyance? Then again, maybe this is really how I presented myself- always the “friend”. Oh well, actually I have this cool relationship with all of my girl friends from grade school to college. It’s a little truthful but hey its still jolting.


So, maybe Im no hot guy, eye candy or a head turner. Maybe I’m the easy to get with, well-articulated, humor-glossed guy. Maybe Im not the real boy toy. Maybe I have to deal with the fact that Im treated all the time as “the friend”. Whether this is good or bad, all i care is that i maintain good relationships with people who make my life a little bit interesting.